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Matthew's Story
"Less than a year ago, I knew a boy who could, at times, be short-tempered, easily frustrated, negative, and easily willing to give up on tasks that would initially be a source of excitement. Too quickly he would lose that excitement and my heart would break as I saw the child I believe so much in feel let down. Sometimes, it seemed as if there was nothing I could do or say to lift his spirits up again. So, the frustration echoed throughout the home. All the while, I could see my bright and clever little boy fall further and further behind. As the chapter of elementary school was ending, the middle school chapter was on the horizon and I was very discouraged about how my only son’s book would end. I found myself looking back on a time when even teachers would tell me that making honor roll was too high of an expectation for my son. I was also told that at the current rate, my son would never be college material. As harsh as it sounded, I could feel fear in my heart that it may be true. But it didn’t have to be. I reached out to Sylvan at a time when I truly felt as if it was my last hope. Sylvan recognized traits in my son after only one assessment that I had always seen, but had never been able to articulate. It was truly an “a-ha” moment. In recognizing those traits, they could appreciate that the frustrated and negative attitude was not who my son really was. I immediately loved them for that alone. But the work was definitely cut out for the instructors at Sylvan. My son was 2 grade levels behind in Reading and middle school was quickly approaching. I knew that if he didn’t catch up, not only would he carry a heavy burden of performing below average, but his feelings of failure would lead to social problems among his peers or worse, within himself. I wanted my son to see in himself what I see in him every day. Sylvan outlined a plan for him and committed to his success by the time middle school arrived, but it required a huge commitment from my son as well. I knew that would be my first challenge. Work, during the summer break? There should be a “how to” book on explaining that to an 11 year old. All the while, the instructors at Sylvan intuitively expected this challenge and made each day an exciting and positive one for my son. Sometimes, he would go stomping all the way. But, as I waited for him to come out, all I ever noticed was a smile and some type of reward that he received for his hard work that day. Each progress report was more amazing than the previous one. Then came the real test, the first day of a new middle school. I held my breath as I waited to hear how it went. Wow! It was great! Every day seemed to be a good day for him. Then one day, out of the blue, a letter from his new teacher comes home. It’s a STAR Reading Assessment and I had no idea his teacher gave this assessment. I read through it and found that my son, my baby, my future engineer, my future soccer champion had performed better than 52% of his peers on a 6th grade reading assessment!!! He was reading at a level that is exactly where he needed to be! From reading at a beginning 3rd grade level to reading at a 6th grade level has and will open doors for my son that I can’t even adequately quantify right now. Not only has he succeeded in reading, but more importantly, I have seen him recognize and take pride in his personal growth and success. This was something I never had the luxury of witnessing before Sylvan. And now my son amazes me every day with his hopes and aspirations for his future. He already knows what colleges he would like to consider! He has made some of the most mature realizations that I have ever seen from him, such as knowing how hard he has worked and how far he has come. It’s not every day that an 11 year old takes the time to think about such a mature concept, but he contemplates it and makes comments to me that send my heart into a flutter of joy. And to the teacher who told me that honor roll was too high of an expectation for Matthew….. GUESS WHO MADE HONOR ROLL?!?! I am forever in debt to the teachers at Sylvan in Goldsboro, NC. Every time I see my son succeed, every time I see my son achieve, every time my son sees in himself what I see in him, I will quietly in my heart thank them no matter where I am."
- Matthew's Mom
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