WHOSE HOMEWORK IS IT ANYWAY?
When was the last time you went into a meeting without
reviewing your notes? Or made a phone call without thinking about whom you were
calling and what you wanted to say? You think about things
ahead of time in order to be prepared. You do your homework,
so to speak. Your child—regardless of grade or age—has the same responsibility,
except that it really is homework for which he or she must be accountable.
So when seven o’clock rolls around and, yet again, you
find yourself explaining grammar or demonstrating math formulas, you
may wonder, whose homework is this anyway?
"Parents should let their kids know that this is
the kid’s responsibility," says Bruce Sonnenfeld, Director of the
Sylvan Learning Center in Boulder, Colo.
Teachers and educators agree that if homework is important
to parents, it becomes important to kids. The easiest way to convey
this is by helping your child understand the purpose of homework. "Homework
reinforces the skills that were taught during that day and provides
students with options to look at other skills," Sonnenfeld explains.
When students do their homework, they understand better what is going
on in class and participate by asking questions that challenge and intrigue
them.
There will be times when children will need help from
their parents. However, children should not depend on their parents
to show them how to do the work.
Sonnenfeld cautions, "If every night parents are
helping their kids with homework for half an hour to an hour, they’re
probably doing too much."
Here are some tips parents can use to help students become
responsible for homework:
Start a learning log. In a notebook, have your
teen include what was learned and how (e.g. through note-taking in class,
by watching the teacher do a similar problem, by reading a passage,
etc.). This helps students develop strategies to learn new material,
which will reinforce their self-confidence.
Keep a homework notebook. Sonnenfeld suggests that
students study a little bit every night, even if they don’t have an
assignment. To keep track of studying, students should write down due
dates and materials needed for special projects. This way, they can
study ahead of time and won’t get caught in a last-minute panic putting
together projects they knew about weeks beforehand.
Establish a study and work schedule. Younger children
will need help setting aside specific times to study, and older children
will need help balancing study time with extra-curricular activities.
Study breaks allow your child to return refreshed and ready for a new
topic.
Practice, drill, retain. This formula can help
you describe to your child the importance of homework. Practice (study)
helps your child when he or she is drilled (tested) so that he or she
can retain (learn) the material.
Participate in your child’s learning. Show your
support by quizzing your child on material, going over projects or tests,
and listening to explanations of new concepts. Keep in contact with
your child’s teacher and know the school’s homework policy.